Probably
the oldest wedding gift tradition
is the bride and groom
giving gifts to each other. Choose
something that will reflect
your commitment and that will last a long time. Items that can be engraved
with your and the groom’s initials add a special touch.
Ideas for the Bride:
·
Pearls to wear on the wedding day
·
A charm bracelet that can be added to throughout the years
·
A crystal perfume bottle
filled with her favorite scent
·
An engraved locket with her engagement portrait
·
A poem written by the groom enclosed in a frame
·
A picture frame for her office
desk
·
A jewelry box
·
Personalized stationery
·
A watch or other piece of jewelry engraved
with the wedding
date
·
A desk clock
·
A figurine
Ideas for the Groom:
·
A dress watch engraved
with the wedding
date
·
Engraved cuff links
·
A specialty item for his desk such as a clock
·
A poem written by the bride enclosed in a frame
·
A cd or cassette recorded
with the couple’s
favorite romantic
songs
Another tradition is for the bride and groom to give gifts to their attendants to acknowledge all of their help and support.
The gifts chosen should
reflect the style of your wedding day. A thank-you
gift that has been wrapped with care shows how much you value the recipient's friendship and the role that they are playing in your wedding. In addition, enclosing a card with a brief note acknowledging your relationship or monogramming your gifts adds a special touch and enhances
sentimental value. The best man and maid
(matron) of honor gifts are often different from the other attendant’s to reflect
the larger contribution and special
roles they play in the wedding. However,
you are not bound by this rule and it may be less stressful to give them all identical gifts.
Don’t forget your flower
girl or ringbearer, as they are important part of your ceremony.
Ideal occasions to present
your gifts would
be a bridesmaid luncheon,
the bachelor party or during the rehearsal
dinner.
Ideas for the Maid (Matron)
of Honor and Bridesmaids:
·
A matching set of necklaces
or earrings
·
A crystal dish or vase
·
An engraved compact
or pen
·
A figurine
·
A bracket engraved with their initials
·
A silver-plated or frosted
glass picture frame
·
A monogrammed address
book
Ideas for the Best man and Ushers:
·
A desk clock
·
A picture frame
·
A pocketknife
·
A paperweight for their office desk
·
An engraved business card case
·
A letter opener
·
A key chain
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A money clip
·
An engraved pen
·
A pen holder for their office desk
·
A silver-plated corkscrew
Ideas for the Flower Girl:
·
A music box
·
A figurine such as a ballerina or precious moments character
·
A bracelet or necklace
·
A doll dressed in wedding attire
·
Several of her favorite
books wrapped together
·
A picture frame that could later be filled with a picture
of her and the bride from the wedding
day
·
A homemade teddy-bear bride
·
A drawing kit containing paper, crayons,
marker, stickers, etc.
·
A personalized tee-shirt
Ideas for the Ringbearer:
·
A gift box of his favorite
sports balls: basketball, football or soccer
·
A piggy bank
·
Several of his favorite
action figures
·
A drawing kit containing paper, crayons,
marker, stickers, etc.
·
Several of his favorite
books wrapped together
·
A picture frame that could later be filled with a picture
of him and the bride from the wedding day
A modern trend that is growing
is to give gifts to the parents of the bride and groom.
Ideas for parent gifts:
·
Your engagement or wedding
portrait in a silver
picture frame
engraved with the wedding date or in a crystal picture frame
·
Your engagement portrait
along with your mother and grandmother’s wedding portraits
all framed together
·
An engraved silver tray
·
Silver or crystal
candlesticks
·
A picture or piece of art
·
Their favorite flowers delivered the next day
·
A figurine of their favorite pastime
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