1. You need to know being married means you have somebody to tell your secrets to.
2. You need to know you’rethe one person in the world they trust to not hurt them.
3. You need to know praying togethercan be more intimate than sex. And just as important for a healthy marriage.
4. You need to know there arefive kinds of intimacy: physical, emotional, mental, social, and the easiest and quickest, the physical.
5. You need to know to hold handslike teenagers do. In the movies, walking down the street, in restaurants.
6. You need to know sometimes you’rethe strong one. Sometimes not.
7. You need to know that dreamingabout the future together is one of the real joys of marriage. He may dream about a monster pickup truck; she may dream about shutters. Enjoy the dreams.
8. You need to know being marrieddoesn’t mean you stop dating each other. In fact, it’s more important than ever to have date nights.
9. You need to know the closer yougrow to somebody, the greater the potential for pain is. This is one
reason why some people pull away.
10. You need to know one peculiar joy ofmarriage is to be able to hug and kiss knowing nothing else will happen.
11. You need to know a marriagegrows stale if all you do is meet each other’s expectations.
12. You need to know that having fun is asimportant as sharing responsibilities.
13. You need to know the more time youdwell on how wonderful your marriage is, the more wonderful it will become.
14. You need to know that writing lovenotes works as well now as it did twenty years ago when you were dating.
15. You need to know how important it isto smile at each other. It’s far superior to frowning when you make eye contact.
17. You need to know you can still go oncheap dates. The point is being together.
18. You need to know you can do something new without leaving the house. Like spend the night in another bedroom.
19. You need to know to not put onthe oldest, rattiest things you own every night when you get home.
20. You need to know there arefew aphrodisiacs in the world more powerful than just listening.
21. You need to know to spend timehugging each other in bed in the mornings. It sets a nice tone for the day.
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