There are many reasons why a person has participated in this act. In many countries, a child’s parent will agree to arrange their child’s marriage with a certain family when they become of age because they have a mutual relationship with each other and they want to keep their bonds for a lifetime. On the other hand, some people who have the interest living abroad think of fixed marriage as the easiest way out to get their papers done and leave the country.
So the big question is: To Do or Not To Do? No offense but I really think that it is a deal arranging with what we call “Quid Pro Quo.” Simply as, I need something from you and you need something from me. When did marriage become an exchange of service or goods? Marriage is a very sacred sacrament and fixing it with the absence of mutual love for each other is a different story.
I had a cousin who was a U.S. citizen and agreed to get married to a guy who had no residential papers, because she simply just can’t afford a luxurious lifestyle. She needed the money to continue on paying for her bills and other miscellaneous expenses. Though it was no strings attached, it’s kind of awkward to admit that she was providing service in exchange of goods. She was given a down payment just to agree on pursuing the arrangement ($15,000.00 it was). Then every 2 weeks she gets a portion of the guys paycheck as an agreement of getting the fixed marriage until 5 years when the term has completed. But the overall cost for my cousin is that she had to be binded with him for 5 years prior to filing for divorce. Then she’ll be free from him again. Her fixed marriage has its own price. What will yours be? How far will you go to fulfill what you want or what you need? Is fixed marriage the only solution you have? There’s a saying, ” Where there’s a Will,there is a Way” and I don’t think that fixed marriage is the path to do it.
Tell us what you think? Will you take part on a fixed marriage or find your one true love by yourself to marry.
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